How many times have you been in conversation with a prospective customer; the conversation goes well and then you go your separate ways? What, you didn't ask for the order? You know very well that you needed to ask, you are in sales after all. You have been to all of the training's, you have read all of the books, you know the scripts, you've practiced the techniques, but for what ever reason you do not ask! How can this be?
I chalk up the lapse of action to ask for the order as a mental stop that needs to be broken, and broken fast. I once heard a negotiation technique that I felt was interesting in multiple ways. Bare with me as I make sense of this. The technique was as follows:
To set the technique up, you are a NEW real estate investor, you have just found a property that you like, and you wish to make an offer. The question now is where do you start, and how can you get yourself to make that first step? Here is what was recommended...Make an absurdly low-ball offer. Why? The reasoning behind this is to get the conversation started. This low offer not only shocks the other party, but helps release the fear that was built up within the NEW investor, and does not put the investor in a dangerous position, but merely helps break the ice.
Another example was shared the other day on the radio. All attendees were in a training beginners' class to learn how to juggle. The instructor stands up in front of the room and instructs the attendees to hold all of their balls in their hands. He then orders all of the students to drop all of the balls onto the floor. What is the point of this? The purpose of dropping the balls was to help release the tension that every single student had of dropping the balls. The instructor wanted to get that anxiety out up front, and followed this lesson up by saying, "There, now there is only room for improvement."
I think too often then not, fear and anxiety, for failure holds us back from attaining our true potential. Sometimes you need to just confront the fear up front, and make the first move to get the ball rolling. Trust that your knowledge, your personality, and your experineces will take care of the rest. Take that first step, make your first move, and just pay attention to the reaction, it will give you hints on where to go from there. Just get started. The worst thing that will happen is your prospective client says no, and there is only up from there.
- Scott